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Supporting the transformative process


Connectors between what was and what will be

Sometimes Known As

Midwife, Hospice Worker, Companion, Coach, Grief Counselor


Traditionally known for assisting during childbirth and death, doulas play a metaphoric and sometimes literal role in transformative social change. They can facilitate the "birth" of new ideas, movements, or initiatives―guiding and supporting communities through change. They can also help things "die" gracefully and honorably when their time has passed.

Jobs a Doula Might Hold

  • Education: Educational Transition Specialist

  • Legal: Legal Support for End-of-Life Planning

  • Healthcare: Midwife

  • Technology: Tech Support for Elderly Users

  • Construction: Community Liaison for Construction Projects

  • Science: Patient Liaison in Clinical Trials

  • Art: Public Art Planner


Doulas are a grounding presence. Their anchored disposition offers a calming and stabilizing presence during tumultuous times. Their heart-driven approach ensures they treat every situation with profound care and respect.


A doula's skill set is rich and diverse, encompassing various traits tailored to their profound role:

  • Empathy: Understanding and sharing the feelings of others.

  • Patience: Accepting delay or trouble without getting angry or upset.

  • Intuition: Sensing and acting upon unspoken feelings or needs.

  • Holistic Thinking: Viewing situations from all angles and recognizing the interconnection of physical, emotional, and spiritual elements.

  • Acceptance: Respecting and supporting individual choices.


The Bureaucrat: Those who don’t prioritize individual needs or holistic care, conflicting with the doula’s nurturing role.


  • Ethicists: While the doula’s personal support during transitions is important, will it sometimes require flexibility in practice—conflicting with a rigid adherence to ethical codes?

  • Storytellers: Will storytellers generalize individual experiences into a broader narrative, overlooking the personal touch doulas value?


Doulas play a vital role in facilitating transformative processes and must be conscious of several potential pitfalls in their practice:


  • Emotional Over-Involvement: Due to the intimate nature of their support role, doulas can sometimes become overly emotionally involved with those they are assisting. This over-involvement can blur professional boundaries and potentially impact the objective support and guidance they are meant to provide.

  • Burnout: Given the intense emotional and, at times, physical demands of their role, doulas are at risk of experiencing burnout. Constantly supporting others through significant transitions can be draining, and without adequate self-care and balance, doulas may find their own well-being compromised.

  • Self-Neglect: Doulas are so focused on aiding others through transitions that they might neglect their own personal and professional development. Staying updated with new techniques, self-reflection, and continuous learning are crucial for them to remain effective in their supportive role and to grow within their practice.

Why They Are Essential For Transformation

Doulas provide emotional care and reassurance to activists, community members, and leaders—helping them navigate welcomed and unwelcomed transitions in change work. They take a holistic approach, considering the physical, emotional, psychological, and spiritual needs of those they support—ensuring solutions are comprehensive and consider all aspects of well-being.

Focus For The Doula’s Inner Work: Emotional Balance

Doulas, integral supporters during life's transitions, often bear witness to the intense emotions that accompany change. The very essence of their role requires them to be deeply empathetic, absorbing the emotional energies of those they support. To maintain their well-being and effectiveness, doulas should prioritize cultivating emotional balance. This entails engaging in practices that not only help them process these emotions but also facilitate their release, ensuring that they don't become weighed down by the cumulative emotional burdens they encounter. By mastering emotional balance, doulas can continue to provide steadfast support without compromising their own emotional health.

On The Doula’s Bookshelf

For doulas seeking guidance on emotional balance and understanding transitions, the following books are invaluable:

About The Doula

Traditionally associated with childbirth, doulas nurture, support, and guide individuals through transitions. But this concept extends beyond the birthing room. In our complex social landscape, doulas are guardians of transformation—personal, communal, or societal. They hold space for growth, ensuring no one has to navigate the daunting path of change alone. Their role is to listen, encourage, and provide wisdom that helps us during life's transitions.

As human beings, we're in a constant state of evolution, yet change—is often met with fear. Doulas remind us that while change can be challenging, it's also the conduit for growth and renewal. They help demystify the processes, offering tools and strategies to cope with the unfamiliar.

It's essential to recognize that while change is a universal experience, the journey through it is profoundly personal. The notion that one must endure transformation alone is a myth that needs dispelling. Whether changing careers, grieving, or advocating for social justice, the need for a supportive presence is universal. Doulas provide this companionship, ensuring transitions are recognized as passages to new beginnings. By embracing the role of doulas in our collective narrative, we affirm that walking together is not a sign of weakness―but one of strength and wisdom.

Doulas In Real Life

Each of these individuals has contributed significantly to advocating for their respective causes, driving transformative change in various regions and communities across the globe.


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Often regarded as the mother of modern midwifery, Ina May Gaskin has revolutionized childbirth by reintroducing the practice of natural birthing methods. Her work emphasizes the power and strength of women's bodies, advocating for minimal medical intervention during childbirth. By educating women on the birthing process and fostering an environment of calm and trust, she has transformed the birth experiences of countless families.

Alua Arthur is a death doula and the founder of Going with Grace, an organization that exists to support individuals as they answer the complex questions that arise in the face of death. As a death doula, she assists in the process of dying, just as a birth doula assists in the process of coming into life. Her work includes helping individuals plan for their deaths, providing emotional support to them and their families, and ensuring that the final wishes of the dying are respected and fulfilled. Her efforts to bring conversations about death into the mainstream and reduce the fear and stigma around dying are changing the way many people view and prepare for the end of life.

Ai-jen Poo is a social activist serving as a metaphorical doula for organizations and movements, particularly those centered around domestic workers' rights. She co-founded the Domestic Workers United and is the director of the National Domestic Workers Alliance. Her role is akin to that of a doula as she facilitates the birth of better practices and the transformation of societal norms, guiding both policy changes and cultural shifts that recognize and value the labor of caregivers and domestic workers. She plays a crucial part in shepherding these movements through challenging transitions, advocating for dignity and fair labor practices. Her work empowers and supports these workers, helping to navigate and shape the conditions for improved and equitable work environments.


“Transition, on the other hand, is the process of letting go of the way things used to be and then taking hold of the way they subsequently become. In between the letting go and the taking hold again, there is a chaotic but potentially creative "neutral zone" when things aren't the old way, but aren't really a new way yet either. This three-phase process—ending, neutral zone, beginning again—is transition.”

― William Bridges

The Way Of Transition: Embracing Life's Most Difficult Moments

“Death, of course, is not a failure. Death is normal. Death may be the enemy, but it is also the natural order of things.”

― Atul Gawande

Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End

"Socrates, whose mother was a midwife, used to say that his art was like the art of the midwife. She does not herself give birth to the child, but she is there to help during its delivery. Similarly, Socrates saw his task as helping people to 'give birth' to correct insight, since real understanding must come from within. . . . Everybody can grasp philosophical truths if they just use their innate reason."

— Jostein Gaarder, Sophie's World

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